Cock sucker - "A low and despicable male."
But still, my head wasn't quite in that space because I would have to be mad as hell to call him (or any man for that matter) a cock sucker. Plus the word "cock"...COCK... just doesn't flow from my lips right anyway. Now if I say "motherfucca" that's different. That flows more naturally for me because I can say that and still be sexy. But I have gotten to know the brutha a little more and I think calling him a cock sucker now is a bit harsh. So as dramatic and as juicy as that title might have been, I'm gonna have to say goodbye to it for now. Now of course someone that starts to read this may think the title IS deserving, and I can dig it if they do. That's cuz sometimes he is a cock sucker to others. A muthafucca. An awful womanizer. He can be controlling, loud, and a big bully. Is he all of these things to me? Maybe not so much. But to some of the women in his life...it's crazy.
Anyhow, the title came to me last night when he said he was a dog. Not in a bragging type of way though; it was said as simply and plainly as if he had told me his social security number. Like he knew he had a problem and it wasn't a big deal. Ok bruh. Since you called it like that, I'll use your self-proclaimed title to name this series then. So that means I didn't name him; he named himself. And that's that.
Overall, not too shabby on the scores except for the feet. LOL. He can't be boyfriend potential though because he is a career cheater, but I guess I kinda like him a little. Well most of the time anyway. :/ Sometimes I really do dig him and his generosity; other times I can't believe how he is towards people. I guess I kick it with him because he knows how to play the game when it comes to dealing with multiple women. He pays attention to me, calls me, takes me out, and says sweet sugary things. He knows how to make you feel important and that's a skill SINGLE DATING MAN or A ONE WOMAN man can't even figure out. They will take you for granted, tell you that they are busy all the time or gotta work, or see their kids or whatever; and have you sitting around for days/weeks waiting on them to see you or call you. So dumb. I don't know how Shallow Hal manages it all but he does.
The story is long so I have to break it up in parts. It is a little bit of everything too - sad, mean, funny, and at times incomprehensible. I have been seeing him for about 3-4 months but I have seen and heard quite a bit. Yeah, he's a dog and I'll probably get chewed out on the blog for even dealing with him in the first place, but I don't care. I'm grown and I do what I wanna do. There are no rules. I follow the rules I wanna follow.
The first date was described on the Cock Blocker post. The second date was waaay better, but I smelled some signs of bossiness/inconsideration though. Like for example, I TOTALLY HATE when I go on a date with a guy and the waitress asks if either of us wants a dessert and the guy replies “No” without asking me whether I did or not. Especially when they are paying for the date. It’s not like I want the damn dessert, but don’t be answering for me! I’m a grown woman and can answer for myself. I dunno but doing that move just burns my azz. I think it is soooo inconsiderate but it seems that some dudes are totally clueless about this. I just keep quiet and take the mental note, and deduct points off the scorecard when I get home.
Ok f*ck the d*ck right now.
Me: “You got a baby coming here? Are you expecting a baby?”
SH: "I knew you was gonna ask me about that. I told you my son was coming from my country."
Me: "You said they were school age. They can't fit in a crib."
SH: "Ok I lied. I have one kid and he is 15 months."
Now he is on top of me and he ain't about to answer any more questions. But I'm still thinking. Where is the connection between this New York chick and this baby from his country? Didn’t he say his girl was in New York?
Later I thought...a 15 month old in a crib? Hmmm. It's possible but I don't know about that one. So I asked if he was expecting another baby. His answer was no.
I'm not the type that goes on and on with questions to men. Too old for that shyt. I asked the question twice. He said no twice. That was it.
The case was closed.