I did it with three guys in the same week last month. Well let's say two of them (I've known them all for years though. Not strangers.) The third I just let him do the finger thang because we had sex before years ago and I didn't like it. All he does is say, "I love you, I love you. My American girl! I want to marry you, " and shyt like that. Those African cats LOVE saying that they wanna marry you and take you to Africa to meet their mommas. Geezus. I don't wanna hear that marriage shyt AT ALL anyways. Talk dirty or STFU. Plus his moves were BORING. He talks a lot of nasty talk but couldn't deliver. He asked me if I had condoms and I lied just so we wouldn't go there. Although I considered doing it while all the touching was going on (it felt allright), I remembered that short d*ck of his and decided to pass. LOL. I would have a better time using my bullet after a couple of drinks.
So now I get it!
He told me about this Filipino chick he was kickin it with last summer. I think it was his first Lucy Liu. He told me that this girl was sexing him up like crazy during this little four month fling that they had last year. They would rent cheap hotel rooms, have sex all day, and eat Papa John's pizza. They would cut class and have sex in the lab rooms and have sex in her car and what not. She even had him sexting pics of his thang to her and she was sending naked pics of herself to him too. Chick turned him out I guess. Every Friday they had these sexcapades. I think the gurl was exciting to him, so now he has resolved it in his mind that he likes only Asian women thinking they'll be the same. I guess that explains his drooling and panting when he sees them in the gym. He fell out with the Filipino chick when they tried to take things to a boyfriend/girlfriend level, but lately the gurl has been coming back for him trying to get their Freaky Fridays going again. He has been telling me that he was playing it cool and that he didn't like her anymore, but everytime that bish texts him he makes himself available. "Sure I'm free!" But let me ask his azz to hang and he always has some excuse.
So after I heard tonight how he is panting after Asian booty in the gym like that, the fascination with him started to seep outta me like air from a busted tire. Psshhhh. Yeah the co-worker was hatin' on him real hard and I shouldn't buy into that, but then again Hot Chocolate's actions didn't help his case much either. So that's it. The Hot Chocolate name has been officially retired. His name is now Wesley Snipes. Do some research and you'll understand why I chose that name. SMH.
So I guess I need to step up my game? But the real headbanger was something his co-worker told me as we had a candid discussion about relationships and sex.
"Have sex like it's your last time having sex - everytime."
SO KILL IT basically. Very profound, and definitely food for thought.
Having lunch with the ex next week I hope! Haven't seen him in awhile. I'll have to look at him again to see if he is really what I made him up in my head to be. Ain't nuthin' going on between me and him --- for now. Ah, he doesn't seem like the cheatin' type anyways. I'm safe I think.
Having dinner with another ex next week too. Good friend. I was his first! Ain't that something that I still know this dude? Amazing!